One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in
a big company. He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made
the last decision. The director discovered from the CV that the youth’s academic
achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the
postgraduate research, Never had a year when he did not score.
The director asked, “Did you obtain any scholarships in school?” The youth
The director asked, “Was it your father who paid for your school fees?” The youth
answered, “My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who
paid for my school fees”.
The director asked, “Where did your mother work?” The youth answered, “My
mother worked as clothes cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his
hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect”.
The director asked, “Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?”
The youth answered, “Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more
books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me”.
The director said, “I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your
mother’s hands, and then see me tomorrow morning”.
The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he
happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange,
happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the kid. The youth cleaned
his mother’s hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed
that his mother’s hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her
hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were
cleaned with water.
This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed
the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother’s
hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic
excellence and his future. After finishing the cleaning of his mother’s hands, the
youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother. That night, mother and
son talked for a very long time. Next morning, the youth went to the director’s office.
The Director noticed the tears in the youth’s eyes, asked: “Can you tell me what
have you done and learned yesterday in your house?” The youth answered, “I
cleaned my mother’s hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes”.
The Director asked, “please tell me your feelings”. The youth said, “Number 1, I
know now what is appreciation. Without my mother, there would not the successful
me today. Number 2, By working together and helping my mother, only now I realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done. Number 3, I have come to
appreciate the importance and value of family relationship”.
The director said, “This is what I am looking for to be my manager. I want to recruit a
person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of
others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in
life. You are hired”. Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the
respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The
company’s performance improved tremendously.
If one doesn’t understand and experience the difficulty it takes to earn the
comfort provided by their loved ones, than they will never value it. The most
important thing is to experience the difficulty and learn to value hard work behind all
the given comfort.